Friday, August 19, 2005

In Who Do We Trust?

What is the value of trust? How valuable is trust? How do you know who you can trust (if anyone)? We all recall the Linda Tripp/Monica Lewinsky debacle, right? Shared telephone calls are a breach of trust. It's even illegal to record a conversation without the other person's permission. So, my question is whether sharing someone's e-mail with another person without their permission is a breach of trust?

Recently, I found out a person who I have been corresponding with has been turning around and sharing my e-mails, word for word, with another party. This has apparently been occurring for quite a while. What bothers me is I trusted this person and was writing to them in confidence. Or what I thought was a confidence. I respected the person's opinion and sincerely believed what I wrote to them stayed with them. It's not the content that was shared that bothers me, but the principle of it all. I will now feel uncomfortable when writing this person and will be making an active effort to monitor what I write to them. And, I think this is sad.

Where is the line of betraying the person who is communicating with you? Phones? E-mails? Written letters? Smoke signals?

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